I would have some one rather tell me the truth then be nice,
Because truth means a lot more then some one being nice to me.
Even if that person is an a hole to I wouldn’t really care because its one person
Being not nice, it really doesn’t bother me. But if that person cares enough to tell me the truth about things then at least I know they care a little about me in some way.
Honesty is very important tom me because it’s something that builds up trust, bravery, integrity, and stuff like that. And it shows care in people, shows that people are willing to take back that much. And that you can ask someone to do something and you know they are going to do it and be able to come you to you and tell you that they did it.
An example is when my brother was on drugs like heroin and I asked him, my aunt asked him, and my mom asked him if he was on something and he was and he said he wasn’t but, we could tell he was on it because he never acts stupid when he’s sober he doesn’t talk with his eyes closed drooping to the floor he sleeps right and doesn’t stay up all night for 3-4 days, and when he lied I go upset cause he acts like a dumb ace. And be because he wasn’t telling the truth, and that he has my niece to take care of.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Words
Why do words hurt so much? I think it is because words get under the skin. Some words can make you so mad some make you sad. You never know how someone will fill if you say something that they do not like. Like this friend that I have did not like when I said that his girl friend was poling him in to meth and that I did not like her. Me and him got in to an argument and said some things that we regretted we did no speak for a week. Words heart more then getting hit some times because they heart longer.
Trust
I trust my foster dad Eddie enough to talk and ask him things that I wouldn’t talk or ask my parents about. I’ve only been with him for two months and I already know I can trust him. He’s given me a lot of advice lately that makes me fell like he understands what I’m going through. It made me wonder how? Then he told me he was adopted and knows what I’m going through. That’s when I realized I can trust him. If you took one glance at his appearance you’d probably think he doesn’t know crap. When you get to know him though he really is understanding, caring, and kind.
He told me once that bad things happen to good only to make them better people. Then he said “Tyler that’s happening to you, so continue to make the right choices”. Then I made the decision to clean up my act and put my life back together.
He told me once that bad things happen to good only to make them better people. Then he said “Tyler that’s happening to you, so continue to make the right choices”. Then I made the decision to clean up my act and put my life back together.
Honesty
How important is honest to me? I think honesty is one of the most important things to me. Mostly because I can get over a lot of things, cheating, and stuff like that. But I hate being lied to! I won’t stand it; it’s an insult to my intelligence. That they think I wont figure out I’m being lied to. I believe that honesty is the most important in all relationships. Honesty leads to trust and if you are honest, they know they can trust you. I would rather be told an ugly truth, then a beautiful lie. Sure it would be nice to pretend everything’s perfect and everything. But in the end it just hurts you in the end. Because it is not the truth, and you can live a lie forever.
Hmm…someone that was painfully honest with me? Well my ex boyfriend JJ called me fat and told me I could lose a little weight. I think that was the most painfully honest thing a guy has ever told me. How did this turn out to be a good thing you may ask? It made me aware of my body and helped me work in to who I am today. Also now I’m a health nut, in pretty good shape and okay health. That was the most honest anyone has ever been to me. It hurt way bad having someone be that honest specially since it was a my boyfriend at the time. Yeah it hurt and all but in the end it made me want to be better, so four years later here I am today trying to be the best I can be. I probably wouldn’t be in the shape I am today if it weren’t for JJ being so painfully honest. But the truth hurts and there’s no lie about that.
Hmm…someone that was painfully honest with me? Well my ex boyfriend JJ called me fat and told me I could lose a little weight. I think that was the most painfully honest thing a guy has ever told me. How did this turn out to be a good thing you may ask? It made me aware of my body and helped me work in to who I am today. Also now I’m a health nut, in pretty good shape and okay health. That was the most honest anyone has ever been to me. It hurt way bad having someone be that honest specially since it was a my boyfriend at the time. Yeah it hurt and all but in the end it made me want to be better, so four years later here I am today trying to be the best I can be. I probably wouldn’t be in the shape I am today if it weren’t for JJ being so painfully honest. But the truth hurts and there’s no lie about that.
Honesty
Honesty: The power to tell the truth and act on it.
Honesty can affect people in a very big way it would change every thing from how people act how they talk how they think and how they dress. If every one was honest it would be a whole new world it would help people to open up and share what they are thinking. People would be able to express what there thoughts are about life and what they fell about what one person might say or do.
I think if everybody was honest it would hurt a lot of people but it would also make people fell better about them self. But this subject like all others haves an other side and I thick it is important that it is also hard and the opposite of the truth is a lie so if the truth hurts then does a lie feel good and if they both hurt. Can you say that every time we say something it hurts someone somewhere? If you do not like to be hurt but you are constantly hurting someone aren’t you just hurting you’re self. So I thick that all though lying is wrong there are times that it is best to lie. Witch would also mean that telling the truth is best even though telling the truth may hurt someone in some circumstances it is still best to tell the truth. It takes a big person to tell the truth but it may some times be best to lie. And the simple truth is that the truth hurts. So when you find you’re self in a place where you don’t know what to do remember that even throw you don’t mean to even throw you don’t want to what you say can hurt someone somewhere.
Honesty
1. moral uprightness: the quality, condition, or characteristic of being fair, truthful, and morally upright
2. truthfulness: truthfulness, candor, or sincerity
Synonyms: uprightness, morality, trustworthiness, goodness, scrupulousness, decency, rectitude, righteousness, fairness, reliability, honor
Honesty can affect people in a very big way it would change every thing from how people act how they talk how they think and how they dress. If every one was honest it would be a whole new world it would help people to open up and share what they are thinking. People would be able to express what there thoughts are about life and what they fell about what one person might say or do.
I think if everybody was honest it would hurt a lot of people but it would also make people fell better about them self. But this subject like all others haves an other side and I thick it is important that it is also hard and the opposite of the truth is a lie so if the truth hurts then does a lie feel good and if they both hurt. Can you say that every time we say something it hurts someone somewhere? If you do not like to be hurt but you are constantly hurting someone aren’t you just hurting you’re self. So I thick that all though lying is wrong there are times that it is best to lie. Witch would also mean that telling the truth is best even though telling the truth may hurt someone in some circumstances it is still best to tell the truth. It takes a big person to tell the truth but it may some times be best to lie. And the simple truth is that the truth hurts. So when you find you’re self in a place where you don’t know what to do remember that even throw you don’t mean to even throw you don’t want to what you say can hurt someone somewhere.
Honesty
1. moral uprightness: the quality, condition, or characteristic of being fair, truthful, and morally upright
2. truthfulness: truthfulness, candor, or sincerity
Synonyms: uprightness, morality, trustworthiness, goodness, scrupulousness, decency, rectitude, righteousness, fairness, reliability, honor
Promises
The only time you should not keep a promise is when it involves someone getting hurt or if someone is in danger. For example if some told you their mom is abusing them and they tell you not say anything then make you promise not to. That’s when you should say something. Another example would be if someone said their going to kill them self’s then you should report it. basically if it’s something that you feel wrong about keeping quiet then say something to some one before it’s to late don’t even think about saying something afterwards.
Punch vs. Words
Do you guys/girls think words hurt more than a punch? Or do you guys/girls believe that a punch hurts more than words? Because I believe that words hurt way more than a punch. I mean seriously a punch might hurt you but just for a minute not like in the other side words will always and forever will be their. Is like my scars every time you’ll remember or see them it hurts because you remember what happen. I been hit so much by life and by people that it doesn’t even hurt no more. But when I comes to someone that I love who tells me something some really hard words it does hurt me. And it will always stay their till the day that you die.
Friday, September 3, 2010
Mom
My mom is kind, loving and caring. She adopted nine kids including me! All of us really didn’t have any where else to go at the time. So I’m glad she opened up her heart to us when everyone else turned their backs on us.
Our mom really tried to take care of us. Now she’s trying really hard to get us back into the family. And now we only have ninety days till they decide if we go home or not. This in my opinion means she deserves a lot of respect for how hard she tried.
Our mom really tried to take care of us. Now she’s trying really hard to get us back into the family. And now we only have ninety days till they decide if we go home or not. This in my opinion means she deserves a lot of respect for how hard she tried.
The Power of the word. The Power of Silence.
Most people believe that there is great power in a word but maybe there is a far greater power in silence. In the world we live today you are considered a strong person if you stand up and speak your mind yet as a child you are taught that it may be best to listen and comprehend what is being said. You are told that actions speak louder than words. I am not saying that words do not have power I’m saying it is who, how, when, and where it is said. If I say it smells like flowers at the dump those words don’t carry that much power if any at all. Yet just saying a simple “I do” is some of the words some wait to hear for there whole life.
In a personal experience, as I was a kid I would tell my mom that I would not follow in my brothers footsteps that I would never get locked up that I would stay there and help her. Well I got in some trouble and sent to lock up. It hurt my mom so much she did not talk to me I would write her, call her, and try to get her to visit me but she did not talk to me it was easer for her to not talk to me yet her not talking to me was one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with.
In a personal experience, as I was a kid I would tell my mom that I would not follow in my brothers footsteps that I would never get locked up that I would stay there and help her. Well I got in some trouble and sent to lock up. It hurt my mom so much she did not talk to me I would write her, call her, and try to get her to visit me but she did not talk to me it was easer for her to not talk to me yet her not talking to me was one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with.
What kind of people don’t I like?
What kind of people don’t I like? Well for starters I really hate two faced people. I also don’t like people that make promise and never keep them. I also don’t like most boys! They are total jerks, okay well not all of them just my ex’s. I also don’t like players. We all know the type, the love them and leave them type. Now I’m not going to say that all men are jerks because I know there are men that are amazing people. Maybe it is just cause we are so young, and really don’t know what we want out of a relationships. So my advices try not to get into serous-relationships so early, because I think when things go wrong it can make you really hate the person you once loved.
But most the time I really try not to hate people. I believe that life is too short to feel it with so much hate! Because the world is already filled with so much hate and ugliness. I highly doubt that we need to put more in to. I think of hate as pollution or a virus it just spreads everywhere. Hating people takes way too much time and I don’t know about you but I really don’t have that much time to waste on people that don’t matter. Because people that matter don’t care about it, and those who care about it doesn’t matter. So any ways life is too short to feel it with hate and regret. That and hating people causes worry lines and I’m also pretty sure it causes cancer!
But most the time I really try not to hate people. I believe that life is too short to feel it with so much hate! Because the world is already filled with so much hate and ugliness. I highly doubt that we need to put more in to. I think of hate as pollution or a virus it just spreads everywhere. Hating people takes way too much time and I don’t know about you but I really don’t have that much time to waste on people that don’t matter. Because people that matter don’t care about it, and those who care about it doesn’t matter. So any ways life is too short to feel it with hate and regret. That and hating people causes worry lines and I’m also pretty sure it causes cancer!
What I think of emotions
I think that people hold there emotions from other people so that they don’t get heart. When you let someone know whet you are filling they may think that you are week. But when I hold back my emotions everything builds up and I explode some times I heart others sometimes I heart my self. I heart my self by running some my friends off.
The reason is that I hide my emotions from people is they don’t need to know whet I am filling in less I am mad. People don’t need to be in my business. You don’t need to know why I am sad, mad or happy. If you really need to know why I fill the way I fill then you are to nosey to me.
The reason is that I hide my emotions from people is they don’t need to know whet I am filling in less I am mad. People don’t need to be in my business. You don’t need to know why I am sad, mad or happy. If you really need to know why I fill the way I fill then you are to nosey to me.
Loyal or un-loyal friends how can you tell?
What makes a friend loyal or un-loyal? I show my loyalty to my friends by if they need something, I will be there for them and if they just want to chill, I chill with them and just being a good friend to them, if they want to talk about something randomly, I’ll talk to them, and an un-loyal friend wouldn’t do that, they wouldn’t just sit there and listen to you and all of your problems and fears and understand it and want to help you with that.
They probably wouldn’t even hang out with you that much they would just ignore you and not really like to be around you and just plane jerks is what I’m saying. In my life I have learned to ignore the people that try to make friends just because they want to use you for something and I do not like those type of people because of what they do to people if they make you think that your there friend and then they just ditch you for someone else that they want to use for another reason.
My point is a friend is a person that will be there for you and will want to be with you and just hang out because it’s fun.
They probably wouldn’t even hang out with you that much they would just ignore you and not really like to be around you and just plane jerks is what I’m saying. In my life I have learned to ignore the people that try to make friends just because they want to use you for something and I do not like those type of people because of what they do to people if they make you think that your there friend and then they just ditch you for someone else that they want to use for another reason.
My point is a friend is a person that will be there for you and will want to be with you and just hang out because it’s fun.
What makes a friend loyal?
To me a loyal friend is a friend that’s always by your side everyday that you are down. A friend is a friend that will be willing to stick up for you or some other friend; it’s a friend that will be sharing, caring, and exciting. A friend is one that will be nice, respectful and will not be a backstabber. A loyal friend will help you out with stuff you will need help with. A loyal friend will make plans to hang out and keep that plan. A loyal friend will promise you something and keep that promise for you and not let
You down.
Your friend will not be someone that will be rude and be putting you down for any reason. A loyal friend will not joke around to make she/he feel good. That friend will be your friend and not your enemy the friend will not disrespect you in anyway. That friend will not try to be to annoying when around you or other friends. A friend will walk down a street with you and watch your back when you’re not alone or if you’re alone. Your friend will not let anybody/anyone. A loyal friend is not someone who will sit back and watch you get into trouble. A loyal friend will keep you out of trouble. That loyal friend of yours will not get there pleasure from your pain.
You down.
Your friend will not be someone that will be rude and be putting you down for any reason. A loyal friend will not joke around to make she/he feel good. That friend will be your friend and not your enemy the friend will not disrespect you in anyway. That friend will not try to be to annoying when around you or other friends. A friend will walk down a street with you and watch your back when you’re not alone or if you’re alone. Your friend will not let anybody/anyone. A loyal friend is not someone who will sit back and watch you get into trouble. A loyal friend will keep you out of trouble. That loyal friend of yours will not get there pleasure from your pain.
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