Honesty

How important is honest to me? I think honesty is one of the most important things to me. Mostly because I can get over a lot of things, cheating, and stuff like that. But I hate being lied to! I won’t stand it; it’s an insult to my intelligence. That they think I wont figure out I’m being lied to. I believe that honesty is the most important in all relationships. Honesty leads to trust and if you are honest, they know they can trust you. I would rather be told an ugly truth, then a beautiful lie. Sure it would be nice to pretend everything’s perfect and everything. But in the end it just hurts you in the end. Because it is not the truth, and you can live a lie forever.

Hmm…someone that was painfully honest with me? Well my ex boyfriend JJ called me fat and told me I could lose a little weight. I think that was the most painfully honest thing a guy has ever told me. How did this turn out to be a good thing you may ask? It made me aware of my body and helped me work in to who I am today. Also now I’m a health nut, in pretty good shape and okay health. That was the most honest anyone has ever been to me. It hurt way bad having someone be that honest specially since it was a my boyfriend at the time. Yeah it hurt and all but in the end it made me want to be better, so four years later here I am today trying to be the best I can be. I probably wouldn’t be in the shape I am today if it weren’t for JJ being so painfully honest. But the truth hurts and there’s no lie about that.